Happy International Woman’s Day! To celebrate this wonderful day I thought I would take a moment to mention just a few (there are many many more but that would take forever) of the fantastic women have made me the woman I am….
My mum and I getting ready on my wedding day.
Possibly predictable, I know, but she has sculpted me into the woman who I am in so many ways. My mum’s positive attitude to life and death became even more inspirational when I had cancer. I see so much of my mum in the way I’m raising my children and my most my strength comes from my mum (and my lovely dad, but I guess that comes on Fathers day?!) Even 6 years after she passed away I can hear her when I question what I am doing, encouraging me to do better.
Ms Nicola Fernhead
Ms Fernhead saved my life. Literally. She is the amazing surgeon at Addenbrookes hospital who oversaw every aspect of my cancer treatment and performed my twelve-hour lifesaving operation. She stripped me down and put me back together again (physically and spiritually I think)… and added an extra bit! To be able to identify someone who is one of the major reasons you are actually alive is a bizarre but very wonderful thing.
I knew when I got through cancer I was going to write (and write and write) but I remembering being at a loss of where to start. Then I found Polly Nobel’s website Polly’s Path. A wealth of information about healthy living and being a twenty-something woman living with terminal cancer. Although we had some differing views on life with cancer (and diagnosis), it was so inspirational and starting helping me picture what I wanted to achieve with this blog and my non-fiction writing. I had the joy of meeting Polly in 2013 at an event and she was just as inspiring on real life. Unfortunately Polly died last year but her legacy lives on.
The lovely Thalia Skye
My first paid writing job was from this amazing and inspirational lady, Thalia Skye, and the fantastic website that I contribute to through Coloplast, My Ostomy. It truthfully is my dream job and I am SO grateful to Thalia for giving me the chance and teaching me so much about vlogging, social media but even better than that… Thalia has taught me so much about my own stoma! From practicalities to realising how much I appreciate having this life saving bag and the strength to keep talking about it and raising awareness about life with a colostomy / iliostomy of how boringly normal life remains!
Dr Anna Tripp
My personal tutor at university and the woman who agreed to take punt on a thirty-something mother who was desperate to finally fulfil a dream of reading Literature and Writing at university. It’s one of the best decision’s I have made in my life and I can’t thank her enough for seeing enough of a spark that she would take a chance on a woman with absolutely no academic level 3 qualifications. She rocks!
My sister and my son
Where oh where would I be without my sister! Sisters (especially one like mine) are the best thing ever. An absolutely driving force in my life that keeps me moving forward no matter how much I want to give up and stop and who shines the brightest light in my darkest of days. I quite simply would not be here without knowing that my sister is well and truly in my corner. And now my kids get to enjoy having the best aunt in the world. I love this woman!
There are plenty of other women in my life who have done more for me than words can say. In particular my wonderful female friends and all the women in my family – they are all strong wise and wonderful. From the little things to the massive things you have all built me into who I am and for that I am truly thankful.
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